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Healing out loud · British Columbia

Understanding abuse, so you don’t stay as long as I did.

I’m a mom of three, a teacher, and a survivor. Here I share the stories, the patterns I couldn’t see at the time, and the small daily practices that are helping me heal.

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A gentle weekly rhythm

The blog follows the same series as the videos, so you always know what each day brings.

Monday

Mindfulness Monday

Small practices for staying present when your mind wants to run.

Wednesday

Wisdom Wednesday

Lessons learned the hard way, shared so they come easier.

Thursday

Storytime Thursday

Stories from the inside of a relationship that was not what it seemed.

Friday

Feel-Good Friday

Things that helped, and things that made someone smile.

Saturday

Soulful Saturday

Slower posts about rest, faith and finding yourself again.

Ongoing

Looking Back

Moments from the past, seen clearly now.

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Looking Back

Patterns I only saw later

A series about the moments I only understood later: the things he said, the things I came to believe, and the voice I’m learning to trust again.

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Healing isn’t becoming someone new. It’s coming home to yourself.

Reflection Sunday

Hi, I’m glad you’re here

Mom to three wonderful children. Teacher. Abuse survivor. I want to help others understand abuse so they don’t stay as long as I did.

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